In memory of James, who will never be forgotten…
When a child is lost to us the impact to the parents is always devastating.
The reason being that death of a love one is always hard, but when it is a child it seems all the greater that in the natural course of events adults should precede their off-spring and we cannot contemplate it the other way round.
Two wonderful parents came to see Jenny and it was with joy that their handsome son decided to come through and speak to them some few short weeks after he passed of a heart attack.
He was only 13 years old. He had been playing out in the country with a friend when a massive blow struck him.
He described it like being hit on the left shoulder and arm and then he fell back.
Everything was done in an instant and he knew nothing after that. The young man, whose name was James, said he walked home.
At that moment when brain death occurs the spirit body, which is encased in the physical body, is able to come out of its shell.
It senses a freedom and in this child’s case he decided to walk home – a natural decision.
While he was returning home, the emergency call was given to his parents that their son had died, so they immediately left to go to the scene.
They would have passed one another.
James was an intelligent boy. He told them about his skate-boarding. How he was brilliant at Maths. How he was not initially good at English, but became very good at it.
He would free wheel on his bicycle and put his legs up to the height of the crossbar on either side. This was great fun for him.
He told how the family were due to go on holiday and because of his demise it had been cancelled, but he also knew of another holiday that was coming up.
Of course he knew it. He would have been listening to their conversation while in his spirit body at his home. He also mentioned that he would be going with them.
He was very popular at school – very close to his parents, but especially his mother.
He had a good sense of humour and was always laughing and joking.
He was alright and sorry, “Please forgive me?” he said.
It was the first time that James had come through and considering how young he was he did it exceptionally well.
People often think that when love ones pass they automatically want to come through. This is not always the case.
To come through a medium or directly to their family a great deal of procedure and learning on their part has to take place.
This young soul, who was very intelligent, took that important opportunity to do just that.
As Jenny often says to people, “It is the deceased who contact us and not the other way around.”
This young soul is now safe in what we call the Spirit World. You might call that Heaven.
It is called the Spirit World as all who are there are in their spirit form and no longer in their physical body.
James was with his grandmother, who was looking after him. He is perfectly fine, but of course also grieving for his parents.
Don’t let the death of a child or a love one prevent the voyage of personal discovery from continuing.
Not only with communication with that child/person, but with the knowledge that the Spirit World does exist and, with your own discovery, you will be awakened to the vast knowledge and experience of love and a helping hand not seen with naked eyes, but felt.
With enough evidence, which comfortably outweighs any doubts in ones mind, we can learn that our love ones live on and we will be reunited once again through the vehicle of love for all time.
Find out your own truth and never be blinded by uncertainty and false truths often imparted by religious dogma, who know nothing of the real truth and what’s more important, have never even bothered to find out through the evidence that is all around us.
Continue this special journey, because with knowledge, a greater understanding is given and although the pain of a love one is there, it does lessen over time in a much better way.
